What am I doing?

I live in a world where its not ok for me to do what I want and raise my kids the way I want. Isn't the way we raise the next generation of kids the most important thing in the whole world? I'm not talking about silly people that don't vaccinate their children (although your choice affects everyone, so thanks - not), I'm talking about the person that is naturally the better parent (whether that be the mother or the father) and wants to stay home, can. We should make that possible on a social services basis, at least before the child starts school and even after that they really aren't gone more than 6.5 hours or so. I'm tired of coming home and seeing my kids for 3 hours a night and having to do a ton of things in the 6 hour mad dash from when I get home to when I get in bed. Why do I have so much stuff to do? Why aren't there more supports for parents, especially younger ones, especially in schools. If they actually wanted parents to come, there would be a whole hell of a lot more support!!!! Just a rant - sorry. I'm tired.